“I want what you want.” It sounds sexy when you say it to someone who wants you back. When they want you to get what you want, too. But said to someone who isn’t showing signs of longing for you in the same way? Not so much. And yes, I’ve said it before. Maybe you’ve…
“So, your place or mine?” he texts me. We haven’t even been on a date yet. I met him once… twenty minutes at a coffee shop, four months ago. I’m a little thrown. I’d been open to the idea of a slow-burning friendship that maybe, just maybe, could unfold into something more. But this felt…
I’ve never thought of myself as much of a “habitual” person, even though, let’s face it, we all are. Good habits, bad habits, mindless ones we don’t even realize we’re doing… habits are just things we do often. But for a long time, I equated habits with discipline. And I’ve always hated that word. Discipline…
I’ve always prided myself on being a helluva wingwoman. A genuine hype girl. You could be excited about lizards, and although I’m not gonna hold one, I’d still clap in glee as you threw it over your shoulder, wrapped it around your neck, and did whatever other wild things reptile lovers do. I don’t know…
Reclaiming your life is an interesting idea. Honestly, I’m not sure I ever really claimed mine to begin with. Does anyone? Sure, there are moments I look back on now after getting lost in a man, marrying within months, moving across the world (effectively making my career credentials useless and my bank account nearly empty),…
When I was a teenager, I had a massive crush on a boy. Let’s call him Caleb. He was the most handsome boy I’d ever seen, and I was convinced he was the love of my life. Looking back now, I realize that crush on Caleb was the start of me becoming the poster child…
Hi, I’m Candis. I’m a Life Coach and Embodiment Teacher for women. I share stories of love, healing, and the transformative power of stillness. Join me in slowing down, coming home to the body, and reclaiming life, one day at a time.
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